Intimacy Issues: On Fears and Fallbacks
Have you ever been so traumatized from a relationship, that there’s always this lingering fear of abandonment. I’m writing my feelings away as of this moment. I’m enveloped with so much sadness for no reason. Maybe there is. Maybe it won’t go away. In my 15+ years of experience on dating and relationships (naks! do mistakes count?), there’s always a lesson to be learned on each one. But does every disappointment make us stronger, or weaker? Most people would probably answer the former. I’m going to open up a bit to anyone who’s reading this post right now. There are days when I feel I don’t deserve to be loved. Or when I…
Beauty and Beyond: Getting Out of an Abusive Relationship
Being beautiful is not just having good skin, wearing the most expensive makeup, or having a sexy body. Beauty is also how we feel about ourselves. Are we confident? Are we loved? Are we happy? I thought the physical aspects were enough. When you’re suffering an internal turmoil, people can see through you; your soul, your vibe, your suffering. A woman is not at her best beautiful when she is troubled. This is my story on how I escaped an abusive relationship, the warning (and obvious signs) that you or someone you know needs help. Whew. I’m not sure if most of you have noticed me posting pictures, with another guy, finally happy.…
Are You Clingy?
A lot of relationship advice you can find over the internet would tell you that being clingy or needy is bad. It can suffocate a person and can cause hazard to your relationship because you’re not giving the space needed by your partner. What are the signs you are needy? 1 – You call, email, and/or text too much. If you’re over-communicating your partner, you’re bound to be single. You don’t need to be checking in every two hours. If you want to run a woman or man off quickly, this is one of the best ways to do it. 2 – You are overly-emotional. You share all of your feelings right…
