Intimacy Issues: On Fears and Fallbacks
Have you ever been so traumatized from a relationship, that there’s always this lingering fear of abandonment. I’m writing my feelings away as of this moment. I’m enveloped with so much sadness for no reason. Maybe there is. Maybe it won’t go away. In my 15+ years of experience on dating and relationships (naks! do mistakes count?), there’s always a lesson to be learned on each one. But does every disappointment make us stronger, or weaker? Most people would probably answer the former. I’m going to open up a bit to anyone who’s reading this post right now. There are days when I feel I don’t deserve to be loved. Or when I…
On Falling in Love, Getting Hurt and Why Still Try?
If you’ve been reading this blog since it started back 2009, I do post my intimate personal musings since my life is an open book. It’s been a while since I wrote a personal musing because I just want to share you something. I can proudly say that the current state of my relationship is fine, I couldn’t be any happier. I mean I should be. I could be the luckiest girl in the world right now. It would fill in the entire post if I write every single thing I appreciate about him. We shouldn’t have any problems at all. We rarely fight, and when we argue; we simply state what we don’t…
Lost for Words – An Accidental Poem
You know how drunk messages work right? Well I did a “sort of drunk” facebook message to my boyfriend. I showed it to my sister and she thought it was beautiful so I decided to share it with you guys. It’s 5th of November. I wonder if it’s different today. I’m offline. I’ll post an update on my social media since this is a scheduled post. Wish you were here. I’ll do this next time with you, and only you my beloved. If I told you I’m yours, would it decrease my worth. But I know you hate drama so I’ll tell you this I’m in love with you. That’s all that…
TOP 5 QUESTIONS GIRLS SHOULD STOP ASKING THEIR BOYFRIENDS
I got inspired to come up with this post due to my personal paranoia. My brain is still having a debate with herself whether to ask these questions or not but decided not to because yes, they are annoying and yes guys would rather not have you ask this to them. So… besides the shit inside my head I also did a quick survey from my male friends from facebook. #5 Do I look fat na? If they say yes. Aminin mo, malulungkot ka no? Hindi ka na kakain hanggang 6pm no? If they say no. Sasabihin mo binobola ka lang. Bolero sya. Hindi ka pa din kakain hanggang 6pm. #4 Babe, mahal…
Beauty and Beyond: Getting Out of an Abusive Relationship
Being beautiful is not just having good skin, wearing the most expensive makeup, or having a sexy body. Beauty is also how we feel about ourselves. Are we confident? Are we loved? Are we happy? I thought the physical aspects were enough. When you’re suffering an internal turmoil, people can see through you; your soul, your vibe, your suffering. A woman is not at her best beautiful when she is troubled. This is my story on how I escaped an abusive relationship, the warning (and obvious signs) that you or someone you know needs help. Whew. I’m not sure if most of you have noticed me posting pictures, with another guy, finally happy.…
Are You Clingy?
A lot of relationship advice you can find over the internet would tell you that being clingy or needy is bad. It can suffocate a person and can cause hazard to your relationship because you’re not giving the space needed by your partner. What are the signs you are needy? 1 – You call, email, and/or text too much. If you’re over-communicating your partner, you’re bound to be single. You don’t need to be checking in every two hours. If you want to run a woman or man off quickly, this is one of the best ways to do it. 2 – You are overly-emotional. You share all of your feelings right…
Of Karma, Good Juju and Making Things Right
Yes it’s beer. There are times you would ask yourself. “Why do things don’t work out they way we want them to be” no matter how hard you try, or how much you want it. Juju : A gypsy’s word for luck. Good juju can stem from almost any good deed: saving a kitten, or returning a lost book. Bad juju can be spread just as easily. Oh and while you’re at it, try to play and listen to this while reading this blog post :} Failures. My cousin and I were having a conversation this evening about how surrounding ourselves with negative vibes affects the present and future. Negativity doesn’t exist only…
